My mission is to help you heal ancestral patterns, expand your consciousness and find your soul path

Hey! I am Nele Suurmetsfounder, CEO, Healer & Coach at Expand with Nele

Since I was little, I have been interested in human development, expansion, relationships and psychology, but life took me to university to study law instead. Having worked for some time in one of the best-known law firms in Estonia, I began to realize that such self-sacrificing hustle and striving for corporate goals is not for me. My body and soul kept telling me that I was in the wrong place and that life doesn’t have to be all about working hard, that it’s actually possible to create your own kind of life that you truly enjoy. Already at the law firm I started talking about how we should be able to use our talents and strengths, not each of us be pressured to achieve the same goals and hustle mindlessly to create more & more billable hours.
 
At the age of 30, I discovered breathwork, and over time I realized that I had lived my whole life in survival mode, in a state of constant anxiety. My childhood lacked stability and security, so I saw chaos as normal, and authentic self-expression was a huge challenge to my system since it felt unsafe. I realized that anxiety had been my base state and due to my past I was constantly putting myself in situations where I couldn’t be myself and my nervous system could continue in “fight or flight” mode – high stress work environment, toxic relationships and consuming a lot of alcohol to “escape” all of this, trying to find the peace and relaxation that my body so desperately needed.
 
As my nervous system began to heal, more and more resources became available in me to look deep within myself and figure out what I really wanted. My consciousness began to expand and I began to see the abundance of possibilities and the magic of life. Thanks to this, I began to understand more and more that the state of constant stress and urgency of the law firm was not supportive to my feminine nature, and finally the desire to make a huge change in life became too big to ignore. After years of living under pressure, I had found inner peace and felt that I wanted to help others reach this state as well, to discover the depths of their soul, and create their own path in life that is uniquely wonderful and fulfilling for them.
 
Most of the time I did it all alone (until I found coaches and mentors who accelerated my growth exponentially) and it has been the hardest and most important journey of my life. By now I know that the obstacles and difficulties we have overcome are also a layer of our dharma. I realize that all of this prepared me to be able to support other women on a similar journey.

I want to live in a world where every soul can freely express themselves and their creations, because there is nothing more satisfying than creating and enjoying your life exactly in your own unique way. This is how our unique magic can reveal itself. And I’m inspired to contribute as much as I can to this cause. My vision is to be your support, a mirror and your greatest cheerleader, so that you can more smoothly and painlessly discover the magic hidden in your soul, and move towards the life of your dreams!

Podcast on my journey & much more

Listen to the podcast where I shared my journey and experiences, we also talked about how the subconscious mind impacts manifestation & more (in Estonian).

My education

Root Cause Therapy Level 1 & 2: The Centre for Healing, mai 2024
Certified Soul Purpose and Spiritual Life Coach: The Highest Self Institute, aprill 2024
Life Alchemy and Energy Psychology: Osho Darshan Institute, oktoober 2023
Holosomatic Breath Therapy: InnerCamp, juuni 2023
Master of Laws: Maastricht University, January 2018

The story behind Expand with Nele & Cosmic Angel

In 2023, as I dreamed of starting my company, two names spoke to me deeply: Cosmic Angel and Expand with Nele. While Cosmic Angel felt too bold and “out there” initially, I later realized it symbolizes something far greater: the divine, multidimensional wisdom within all of us, guiding us to embody wholeness in this human experience.

Through my own journey of transformation and expansion, I also understood the power of Expand with Nele. Expansion is at the core of everything I do—helping women liberate themselves from past patterns, embrace their unique light, and step fully into their authentic power.

By 2024, I had clarity: my mission was to guide cycle breakers—women courageous enough to heal ancestral wounds, break negative patterns, and pave the way for future generations. My work is about transformation, alignment, and creating lives filled with purpose, freedom, and vibrant authenticity.

Through deep, tailored 1:1 support, I walk alongside you on this expansive journey of self-discovery, healing, and growth, so you can live in harmony with your soul and shine as your most radiant self.

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Core values

Authenticity : I believe that every soul must first of all stay true to themselves. I respect the uniqueness and uniqueness of each soul.
Freedom: Working with me, you will start to feel more free to live and express yourself and your talents in a way that is unique to you. You become more empowered to express your creativity and magic.
Wholeness: I help you accept and integrate different parts of yourself so that you start to awaken to your wholeness and unity with all there is.

My vision of transformation

Through versatile practices and personalized coaching, I support clients on their journey to get closer to themselves, their uniqueness, talents and creative power.

Personalized coaching

My primarily one-to-one approach ensures that each client receives personalized support and assistance on their unique path closer to their soul. In coaching, I use several tools such as breathwork, meditation, visualisation that help connect body, mind and soul.

Addressing root causes

Through root cause therapy, we delve deep into the roots of your problems, giving you the opportunity to get rid of your blockages and limiting beliefs for good, and open up more to your own inner power and magic.

Versatile support

When working with clients, I consider it important to go beyond the level of the conscious mind, as it can often be deceptive. We also work with the subconscious mind and, in addition to the mind level, with the body, emotional and spiritual levels, which ensures a more holistic approach and sustainable changes.

Are you ready to start the journey?

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